Update zlib-ng to 2.2.1 #26113
Release: https://github.com/zlib-ng/zlib-ng/releases/tag/2.2.1
ARM diagnostics patch: https://github.com/zlib-ng/zlib-ng/pull/1774
### Pull Request Readiness Checklist
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- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [ ] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [ ] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [ ] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake
Zlib-ng is zlib replacement with optimizations for "next generation" systems. Its optimization may benifits image library decode and encode speed such as libpng. In our tests, if using zlib-ng and libpng combination on a x86_64 machine with AVX2, the time of `imdecode` amd `imencode` will drop 20% approximately. This patch enables zlib-ng's optimization if `CV_DISABLE_OPTIMIZATION` is OFF. Since Zlib-ng can dispatch intrinsics on the fly, port work is much easier.
Related discussion: https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/22573
