merge with https://github.com/opencv/opencv_contrib/pull/3394
move Charuco API from contrib to main repo:
- add CharucoDetector:
```
CharucoDetector::detectBoard(InputArray image, InputOutputArrayOfArrays markerCorners, InputOutputArray markerIds,
OutputArray charucoCorners, OutputArray charucoIds) const // detect charucoCorners and/or markerCorners
CharucoDetector::detectDiamonds(InputArray image, InputOutputArrayOfArrays _markerCorners,
InputOutputArrayOfArrays _markerIds, OutputArrayOfArrays _diamondCorners,
OutputArray _diamondIds) const
```
- add `matchImagePoints()` for `CharucoBoard`
- remove contrib aruco dependencies from interactive-calibration tool
- move almost all aruco tests to objdetect
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Megre together with https://github.com/opencv/opencv_contrib/pull/3325
1. Move aruco_detector, aruco_board, aruco_dictionary, aruco_utils to objdetect
1.1 add virtual Board::draw(), virtual ~Board()
1.2 move `testCharucoCornersCollinear` to Board classes (and rename to `checkCharucoCornersCollinear`)
1.3 add wrappers to keep the old api working
3. Reduce inludes
4. Fix java tests (add objdetect import)
5. Refactoring
### Pull Request Readiness Checklist
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- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [x] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [x] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake
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