Address https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/22868
Used the same defaults as it's done for FFmpeg
### Pull Request Readiness Checklist
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- [x] I agree to contribute to the project under Apache 2 License.
- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
- [x] The PR is proposed to the proper branch
- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
- [ ] There is accuracy test, performance test and test data in opencv_extra repository, if applicable
Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
- [ ] The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake
```
force_builders=Custom
build_image:Custom=gstreamer:16.04
buildworker:Custom=linux-1
```
* videoio/gstreamer: Add support for GRAY16_LE.
* videoio/gstreamer: added BGRA/BGRx support
Co-authored-by: Maksim Shabunin <maksim.shabunin@gmail.com>
Add CV_16UC1/GRAY16_LE support to GStreamer backend for VideoWriter
* videoio(backend): add Writer_open_with_params to plugin API
This will allow arbitrary parameters to be passed to plugin backends
* videoio(gstreamer): add GRAY16_LE/CV_16UC1 writing support to GStreamer
This introduces a new property VIDEOWRITER_PROP_DEPTH, which defaults to
CV_8U, but for GStreamer can be set to CV_16U.
Also, fix another test to not fail if plugin isn't found, copying logic
from the read_write test.
* videoio(plugin): fix handling plugins with previous API level
* videoio: coding style
* fix warning
