OpenEXR 2.2 or earlier cannot be used with C++17 or later #26678
Close https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/26673
Close https://github.com/opencv/opencv/issues/25313
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- [x] To the best of my knowledge, the proposed patch is not based on a code under GPL or another license that is incompatible with OpenCV
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Patch to opencv_extra has the same branch name.
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Support building with OpenEXR 3.x
* Support OpenEXR 3.0
Try to find OpenEXR 3.0 using the upstream cmake config, and fallback to the previous algorithm if not found
* Add explicit ImfFrameBuffer.h include
This was transitively included with OpenEXR 2.x, but that's no longer the case with OpenEXR 3.x
